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90 Day Fiancé couple Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmihave gone separate ways and their lives are looking dramatically different. Michael from Nigeria is currently in the U.S. where he lives with his new family. Michael has struggled for years to get a U.S. visa, even through his splits with Angela along the way. However, Michael never gave up. Michael and Angela’s relationship survived everything from a cheating scandal to baby drama. Their storyline has been one of the most entertaining when compared to other couples on 90 Day Fiancé.

Various rumors surround the couple now. Angela herself has been claiming that Michael is desperate for a baby of his own and might get multiple women pregnant. Angela also believes that Michael is still a scammer who used her to come to America and has now swindled fans of thousands of dollars, which they willingly gave him out of sympathy. Michael’s rumored to have met Kim Kardashian, who was allegedly interested in helping Michael out. Meanwhile, Angela has been touring the country and even flying internationally for meet-and-greets with whatever little fanbase she has left now.

Michael & Angela’s Relationship Before Marriage

The Biggest Relationship Problems Michael & Angela Faced At The Start

Michael and Angela had a romantic relationship when it all started. Angela was head over heels in love with Michael and thought he was a Godsent, while Michael was attracted to Angela’s body. Angela infamously claims that she was in Nigeria for two weeks the first time she went to see Michael in person. She revealed they had sex 37 times in two weeks and Angela had kept track of it. Still, things soon started going downhill, with Angela growing suspicious of Michael, wondering if he was cheating on her and accusing him of using her money.

As seasons progressed, Angela became more and more insecure about her growing age. She was getting older, and it was affecting their relationship in many ways. Michael wished to have a baby with his 54-year-old partner. Angela had medical issues, and one egg left, so she decided to ask her daughter Skyla to “tote” a baby for her and Michael. Angela wanted a boy toy, but Michael wanted a wife who could give him a baby. He seemed to be putting up with the mistreatment Angela subjected him to just so he could come to America.

Angela & Michael’s Relationship After Marriage

Angela’s Insecurities Grew With Her Age, So Did Michael’s Unfaithfulness

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When Michael’s K-1 visa was denied the first time, he didn’t want to wait for six more months to apply again. He said he felt lonely in Nigeria and wanted to be with Angela in the U.S. ASAP. He pushed Angela into getting married as it was the “best option.” Michael eventually convinced Angela to get married in Nigeria. The pair married in January 2020 but had to wait for over a year to reunite due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Angela worried that Michael would dump her for a younger woman in the U.S. and underwent risky weight-loss surgery.

Angela complained about Michael not giving her attention even during her recovery. She flirted with her surgeon and, next, landed in Nigeria without telling Michael when she figured Michael was having an online fling with a woman from Instagram. Angela decided to give Michael another chance. Instead of divorcing him, Angela and Michael waited for his spousal visa, which Michael now secured through an interview from the Ivory Coast. Michael arrived in the U.S. in December 2023. Angela took him to live in Georgia with her two daughters, Skyla and Scottie, and their six children.

Angela Deem Has Been On The War Path Against Michael

Angela Wants Her Visa Back

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Angela took to social media in late February 2024 to claim that Michael had gone missing. She later received a phone call from the police, who told her Michael had run away from her because he feared for his life. Michael later revealed that Angela treated him harshly at home. Michael found out Angela used a private investigator to snoop on him while at the Tell All. Michael didn’t feel loved and accepted by Angela. Once they returned to Georgia after filming the Tell All in New York, Michael spent four days with Angela and ran away.

In June 2024, Angela filed for an annulment from Michael. According to InTouch, Angela claimed that she wanted the marriage to be annulled since Michael had “fraudulently induced” her into the marriage with the purpose of gaining legal permanent resident status in the U.S. As per Angela, Michael was also engaged in a conspiracy with other Nigerian men to induce U.S. citizens into marriage for the purpose of gaining legal permanent resident status. Angela had announced at the Tell All itself that she wanted “her visa” back. Angela wanted Michael to be deported and for his visa to be canceled.

Michael Is Living His Best Life In America

Michael Is Now Living In Texas


Meanwhile, Michael found himself in Texas. He had friends there, AKA his “new family” who helped him escape Angela. Michael did the unthinkable when he launched his Instagram profile in May 2024. Michael refused to reveal his location. He also launched a GoFundMe page in August 2024 where he asked fans to give him $25,000 to fight Angela in court. Generous 90 Day Fiancé viewers showered more than $52,000 on Michael. There were rumors he bought a fancy car using the money. Screenshots of Michael’s DMs with multiple women were posted online. Michael successfully changed fans’ perceptions of him.

Michael has since hired a PR agency and even a manager. Michael is looking for work in the U.S. and for now, he’s settled on being an influencer. Michael has done collaboration posts with Fashion Nova and a restaurant. His recent videos give fans a glimpse of Michael’s house, which is much cleaner and less messy than Angela’s messy and unorganized place. Michael and Angela keep posting passive-aggressive messages to each other through their Stories and captions. On the other hand, Angela has started to claim she’s been chosen as a messiah to help people like her with untrustworthy spouses.

Will Michael & Angela Return To The 90 Day Fiancé Franchise?

Should Michael & Angela Get Their Own Spin-Off?

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As much as social media provides all the information fans need about Michael and Angela’s legal battle, it would be different to see them battle it out on TV. Angela has been asked to leave the show for years with fans wanting her to be fired. However, Angela might make a comeback through 90 Day: The Single Life. She claims she is not interested in finding a romance again because of her trust issues. Meanwhile, Michael has already romanced a few women and shouldn’t be afraid of flaunting his irresistible ways on a new 90 Day Fiancé show.