90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Loren Allen has become one of the most controversial cast members of the show and his season with Faith Gatoc Tulod isn’t even over yet. Loren is a 33-year-old man from Las Vegas although fans are suspicious about Loren’s real age. During his intro, Loren revealed he worked as a drag queen assistant and was going to the Philippines to meet his girlfriend Faith for the first time. Loren disgusted viewers when he cooked shrimp in a hot bathroom to brush up on his Filipino cooking and prepare for the country’s weather. Little did they know that this was just the teaser for what was to come in Loren’s jaw-dropping storyline with Faith on 90 Day Fiancé.

With 9 episodes of Before the 90 Days already being aired, Loren has become more and more unlikeable with each new episode. He has broken Faith’s heart in many ways possible, leading to viewers rooting for Faith to dump her American boyfriend. Ladyboy Faith had met the man of her dreams when he crossed paths with Loren on a dating app. She had no idea that Loren had continued to chat with other women on the same app after meeting her. Faith was being taken advantage of and her feelings didn’t matter to Loren. He’d kept a ton of secrets about his past life from Faith, especially ones about his first marriage, when all Faith wanted was to be able to live a comfortable life in the U.S. with her first boyfriend in 30 years.

8Loren Allen Cheated On Faith Over & Over Again

Loren Never Told Faith He Didn’t Believe In Monogamy

Loren had been unfaithful towards Loren from the start of their relationship. Despite having known each other for six months, Loren had not told Faith that they both had different ideas of being “Exclusive.” Lore had been sleeping with multiple people in a week. Loren seemed to suggest that what he did was okay since he only loved Faith and was just craving physical intimacy from the rest of those people. Loren kept Faith in the dark about his desire to practice polygamy even after he went to the Philippines.

Moreover, Loren, saying that he was homeless and broke suggested that Loren was sleeping with these other people so he had a place to sleep. Loren didn’t have any feelings towards his partners. He was only using them like he was using Faith. However, fate had other plans for cheater Loren, who was about to be exposed.

7Loren Allen Couldn’t Support Himself

Maybe He Wasn’t In It For Love With Faith

Loren revealed he was facing money issues in the first episode itself when he went shopping for gifts for Faith accompanied by his friend. Esther, who also used to be Loren’s girlfriend in the past, paid for the gift that Lore was supposed to get for Faith. At that point in the storyline, Loren was working three jobs. Besides working at drag shows, he also worked in a retail backroom and a gift shop. Loren said that it was still minimum wage, and he struggled to pay rent. Since he couldn’t really afford to survive in America.

His ideal scenario when he was flying to see Faith in person was to go to the Philippines and find a way to live there with Faith forever. Loren expected his financial burdens to be less in the Philippines so he could “take care of” Faith. However, the best part of this plan to move to the Philippines was that he had yet to have a conversation with Faith about it. Loren had known about how badly Faith wanted to come to America. He didn’t think it was necessary to tell her that he couldn’t afford to support her in the U.S.

6Loren Allen Compared Male & Female Sweat

Loren Made Questionable Remarks On Body Parts Of Trans Women

Loren spoke about his dating preferences only on the show. He mentioned he always wanted to date a trans woman with or without a penis. He added that he was specifically looking for someone with a “female” penis. He explained that the female penis in question smelled a “little bit” different because of hormones and the way the trans woman was taking care of it. Loren also mentioned that the “energy” of it was very different. Loren’s description was confusing and left fans scratching their heads.

It appeared Loren wanted to date a trans woman who was taking hormones like estrogen that could have changed the smell of the organ. Loren also wanted a partner who had not had bottom surgery yet, so Faith, who was a ladyboy, was perfect for him in every way. It appeared that Loren’s limited knowledge about trans women meant he had never romantically been with one before, Faith, because even she was a bottom like him. The lack of communication between them was astounding.

5Loren Allen Has A Restraining Order In His Past

Loren Married Cheyenne Allen-Hinds In October 2011

One more thing about his past that Loren had not discussed with Faith was his restraining order. Loren never told the cameras that he had been previously married. He also didn’t add that he was a father to two kids – one boy and one girl. According to InTouch, Loren was married to Cheyenne Allen-Hinds, who filed for divorce from Loren in December 2013, two years after they married in October 2011. Both Loren and his ex had sought temporary restraining orders and their divorce was finalized in October 2015.

Both Loren and Cheyenne had been restrained from transferring, removing, encumbering, concealing, damaging, or disposing of any property except in the usual course of business or for necessities of life. Both parties had also been restrained from assigning, transferring, borrowing, lapsing, surrendering, or changing entitlement of any insurance policies of either or both parties or of any dependent children.

4Loren Still Seems To Be In The USA

He’s Working At TJ Maxx

Given his plans to start living in the Philippines with Faith immediately after he went to meet her for the first time in her country, Loren’s whereabouts after he finished filming 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days 7 were a mystery to fans. In October 2024, 90 Day Fiancé blogger Shabooty received information that Loren was still in the U.S. The blogger shared a clip a fan had sent to them which showed Loren standing in an aisle at TJ Maxx looking at some products while he seemed to be stacking the shelves at TJ Maxx, a clothing retailer.

It meant Loren never really relocated to the Philippines and the reason may have been a split with Faith. Faith had put Loren in the friend zone when she found out about his many affairs. She was also shaken when she saw that Loren had come to see her in a new country with just $46 in his wallet. Loren was financially irresponsible. He’d spent all his savings on coming to the Philippines and the $46 was all he had to his name. It remains to be seen if he’s still in a financial mess despite his TJ Maxx stint.

3Loren May Have Given Faith An STD

Loren Revealed He Had Gonorrhea

When Loren went to the Philippines, he wasn’t carrying a lot of cash on him but he certainly was carrying an STD with him. Loren didn’t know he had gonorrhea when he went to Manila but received a text message during his trip about his diagnosis. A week before his Philippines trip, Loren was out celebrating Halloween with a friend and ended up spending the night with her. The woman later informed Loren that she had gonorrhea of the throat. It meant that Loren had gonorrhea of the penis.

Loren shamelessly told the producers that he had noticed his penis was upset, and he had experienced a little discharge. Loren said it all with a strange smile on his face, as if he wasn’t serious about what had happened. He was nervous to tell Faith about it since it would mean telling her about his many love affairs in Las Vegas. Loren also wanted to have an open relationship with Faith in the Philippines, and he couldn’t do it now because she was never okay with the idea of him having other physical partners.

2Loren May Have Abandoned His Children

Loren Was Trying To Escape His Duties As A Father

Meanwhile, there were more skeletons in Loren’s closet that have kept tumbling out ever since his 90 Day Fiancé debut. Loren’s ex-wife also claimed that he had willfully abandoned his children and was refusing to perform parenting functions. In October 2015, Cheyenne submitted a parenting plan for their two children. Loren had been ordered to pay $135.50 for each child, totaling $271 per month in 2015, and by 2019, the child support order was adjusted and changed to $383.50 for each child for a total of $767 per month.

“So like I said before, we are broke right now.”

In October 2024, Shabooty reposted a video from Cheyenne’s TikTok account where she had filmed herself making a cake for her and Loren’s son. She explained that the child wanted a Fortnite cake for his sixth birthday, and she was going to make one on her own. Cheyenne commented during the video that she was broke and hence couldn’t get her son the cake that he wanted. Loren had commented on the post confirming the woman in the video was his ex-wife.

However, he didn’t show any emotion towards the fact that his son couldn’t get the cake he wanted on his birthday. Loren was seemingly abandoning his kids when he was going to live in the Philippines, and it may have been a well-thought-of ploy he was executing since it would have led to him skipping out on child support. Loren may have also pretended to be homeless despite having had three jobs because he was evading having to pay child support. Loren was still not being fully truthful about his intention to move with Loren.

1Loren Was Banned After A Shocking Reddit AMA

Loren Has Continued Being Problematic On Social Media

In September 2024, Loren was banned from Reddit after his controversial AMA. Loren had requested questions from fans, but his answers were outright horrifying. According to TVShowsAce, Loren had made unpleasant remarks about how female private parts smell and used words like “rotting” to describe them. He also referred to Cheyenne as his “evil ex-wife” and called white people the “devil,” leading to a ban. The moderators did not want to promote the kind of theories Loren was preaching in the AMA even if he was a certified 90 Day Fiancé cast member.

However, Loren has continued being problematic on other social media platforms like Instagram, where he recently even got into a feud with 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days co-star Tigerlily Taylor’s husband Adnan Abdelfattah for making a distasteful meme about the Texan woman. The humiliation has had no effect on Loren whatsoever. It appears all he wanted to do was become famous and use Faith to get what he wanted. It remains to be seen how exactly Loren tries to stay relevant once his season 7 is over.

90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EDT on TLC.

Source: InTouch, Shabooty/Instagram, 90 Day Fiancé/Instagram, Shabooty/Instagram, TVShowsAce

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

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A deeper look into the lives of couples established in 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a reality tv/documentary series that follows the potential spouse from a foreign country and their lead-up to their journey to America. The show documents the early days of the relationship across the ocean and the K-1 visa process required for the spouse to live in the new country. Couples battle with culture shock, language barriers, and the opinions of friends and families alike as they prepare themselves to take the ultimate leap.

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Release DateAugust 6, 2017
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