90 day fiance's michael and angela looking sad and crying with coins in the background

Michael Ilesanmi from 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? works hard to uphold a polished image on social media, but recent rumors of an affair with a married woman have painted him in a new light. Michael first connected with Angela Deem on Facebook, and their friendship blossomed into a romantic relationship. However, Michael soon began acting shady, leading to a breach of Angela’s trust when he received oral pleasure from a local Nigerian woman. Despite their significant age gap and Michael’s history of infidelity, Angela married him in early 2020, hoping to have a happy life together.

Michael’s marriage with Angela deteriorated after moving to the United States on a spousal visa in late 2023. She grew increasingly suspicious of him. Once, Michael was startled when Angela caught him crouched over his phone. Finally, in February, Michael ran away from Angela’s house three months after reuniting with her in America. Angela now believes Michael took advantage of her and wants to annul their marriage and have him deported back to Nigeria. Meanwhile, fans have helped Michael raise over $52k to hire a good attorney to fight Angela in court.

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After breaking up with Angela, Michael reportedly settled in Texas and became involved in an American-Nigerian community. Despite maintaining a serene presence on social media and frequently sharing inspirational quotes about life, rumors suggest he had started an affair with a married woman shortly after ending things with Angela.

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Blogger John Yates recently posted evidence of Michael’s alleged conversation with the married woman, in which they discussed meeting at his new apartment in Texas. Shockingly, Michael also confirmed the woman’s marital status and pursued her further only after knowing she was married.

The woman claimed that Michael had recently moved to this new place in Houston, Texas, which was 40 minutes from hers. He was “still in the process of unpacking” when she arrived. Michael and the woman allegedly had an affair, which she described as “terrible.” She was left feeling “disgusted and disappointed” by Michael after their affair. After their one-time hook-up, she “didn’t want anything to do” with Michael, but he continued to call and message her. Despite knowing the woman was married, the 90 Day Fiancé franchise cast member was allegedly very “persistent” and kept chasing her afterward.

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Michael Ilesanmi wearing American flag around himself and Angela Deem smiling at airport in 90 Day Faince Michael Ilesanmi and Angela Deem in 90 Day Fiance, where she's spitting food on his face
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After star Angela Deem in pink top looking stressed
Michael Ilesanmi 90 Day Fiancé in brown traditional shirt looking upset Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi from 90 Day Fiancé Arguing during an interviewMichael Ilesanmi wearing American flag around himself and Angela Deem smiling at airport in 90 Day Faince Michael Ilesanmi and Angela Deem in 90 Day Fiance, where she's spitting food on his face
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After star Angela Deem in pink top looking stressed Michael Ilesanmi 90 Day Fiancé in brown traditional shirt looking upset Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi from 90 Day Fiancé Arguing during an interview

Even though Michael is now single and separated from Angela, it’s strange he allegedly wants to engage in a relationship with a married woman instead of pursuing someone single. It seems like he may not be interested in the commitment and responsibility that comes with a serious relationship, but rather in the perks of being with a married woman, such as being treated like a sugar baby. It’s unclear if the woman gave Michael money for this arrangement, but a YouTube user thinks, “Michael is becoming a male prostitute, he is having sex with women for money.”

Michael’s behavior over the years indicates that he’s quite comfortable living as a sugar baby. Throughout his time on the show, he appeared to be satisfied with receiving financial support from Angela.

Although Angela prevented him from working or using social media due to his deceitful nature, he never considered starting a home-based business or utilizing other skills to earn money. Michael’s lack of ambition or career aspirations suggests that his main goal in the United States was to pursue married women who could support his lifestyle, essentially acting as a sugar mama.

Michael’s “God Got Me” Image On GoFundMe May Be A Ruse

Michael’s Likely Using Angela’s Negative Image To Scam Viewers

montage of Michael Ilesanmi 90 Day Fiancé side by side image in brown traditional shirtCustom Image By Diana Acuña

Michael was wrong to cheat on Angela. However, he has somehow managed to garner support from fans by portraying himself as a victim. He has capitalized on viewers’ hatred towards Angela to gain sympathy for himself.

 montage of Michael in his god got me shirt

Michael Ilesanmi is a master manipulator. After scamming Angela Deem, he has convinced many 90 Day Fiancé fans to help him raise an impressive $51k.

In his latest GoFundMe campaign, Michael is seen wearing a t-shirt with the phrase “God Got Me,” trying to present himself as a religious and righteous man, despite his history of infidelity. The fact that Michael has kept his fundraiser active even after surpassing his fundraising goal suggests that he may be exploiting the generosity of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 8 viewers.