90 Day Fiancé's Angela Deem looks serious and Michael Ilesanmi closes his eyes.

Angela Deem from 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? has adopted a new dating strategy after her husband, Michael Ilesanmi, abruptly left her. Unfortunately, Michael and Angela never had a loving relationship. The Nigerian man never stopped deceiving his wife while she continued to berate him for cheating on her. Despite the challenges in their relationship, Angela welcomed Michael to the United States in December 2023. However, he fled her house in February 2024, claiming Angela’s verbal abuse was too much to bear, and he had to leave to protect himself from further torment.

Feeling deceived by her husband of four years, Angela has changed her approach to dating in the future. She shared an Instagram post by @success__tips, suggesting she no longer plans to pursue people as she did with Michael for almost seven years and surrender to God’s will. The Instagram post read, “maybe if we chased god as hard as we chase people, god would give us people we don’t have to chase.” Angela remained in a toxic relationship with Michael for years despite his questionable behavior and cheating scandals. However, she now trusts in God to bring a suitable man.

What Angela’s New Dating Plan Means For Her Future In The Franchise

Angela Won’t Seek Out A Rebound To Move On From Michael

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Angela’s recent Instagram Story has made it clear that she’ll never chase after another man again. It appears she’s no longer interested in actively seeking out men to whom she is attracted. Instead, she’s focused on waiting for God to send her the ideal man who’d want to stay by her side. Angela feels hurt by Michael’s betrayal, which explains why she has shifted her focus to her faith and the blessings she receives from the lord. As Angela approaches her 60s, it isn’t surprising that she’s embracing a more religious and spiritual mindset.

 

Angela’s new message also suggests she isn’t rushing back into dating. She has learned her lesson after her failed marriage to Michael, so she knows it isn’t wise to pursue new men just for a rebound. The 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? cast member was never in a good mental state when she was with Michael, but the breakup has relieved her stress and made her much more optimistic and kind. Angela appears more grounded than before, as she has stopped posting cringe content and blaming her Nigerian husband for everything.

Our Take On Angela’s New Approach To Dating

Angela Could Be Trying To Win Over Fans By Putting On A Humble Act

image of Angela Deem & Michael Ilesanmi with a magnifying glassCustom image by César García

Angela’s message about her belief in God could also be misleading. Over the past few months, she has made efforts to win fans over by using various tactics, including asking fans she meets to support her on social media.

Angela’s Instagram Story may be insincere, and she could be trying to imitate Michael by posting content about “God” in order to appear as someone with strong values. Michael’s post saying “God got me” received thousands of likes from 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? viewers, and Angela may be attempting to achieve the same level of attention.

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